It’s no wonder why self-centeredness is typically viewed as the most unappealing personality trait in a potential friend or partner. Most of us struggle to maintain a sense of compassion and understanding toward others. Self-centered people, on the other hand, don’t bother to take the time to understand another person’s point-of-view or feelings.

A self centered person is:

  • Talks about themselves constantly.
  • Does not listen to others well nor cares to listen to what others have to say and makes no bones about it.
  • Self centered people can cut off a conversation they are having with another person and start talking about themselves.
  • They can be vain about their looks and are constantly looking at themselves in any reflection they can manage to get too, or, constantly preening themselves while the world flies by.
  • They take, but don’t give back.
  • They may flirt even if they have a boyfriend or are married.
  • They constantly need reassurance about their looks.
  • If they don’t get enough attention they will sulk.

Unfortunately I know so people like this, they have gotten so involved in themselves they have forgotten how to be concerned about others. So sad…